SEX COLUMNS

SEX ADVICE ARTICLES

How To Spot A Bunny Boiler In Less Than Three Dates | Maxim Magazine

How To Navigate The #MeToo Era | Maxim Magazine

How To Last Longer | Maxim Magazine

Sex Toys To Buy Him And Her For Christmas | Maxim Magazine

How To Tell If She’s Faking It | Maxim Magazine

5 Reasons Why You’re Not Getting Any Pussy | Huff Post

Do You Like To Watch? | Maxim Magazine

How To Orchestrate A Booty Call | Maxim Magazine

The Politics Of Office Sex | Penthouse Magazine

8 Ways To Be More Erotic Outside The Bedroom | Maxim Magazine

101 Ways To Improve Your Sex Life | Maxim Magazine

History Of The Camel Toe | Maxim Magazine

Orgasm Gap: What’s The Deal? | Maxim Magazine

The Birthday Bang | Maxim Magazine

The Pickup Artist | Maxim Magazine

How Does A Man Go About Introducing a Sex Toy In The Bedroom | Maxim Magazine

Why We Shouldn’t Body Shame Men | Perth Now

Morning Glory | Maxim Magazine

BDSM

What You Need To Know About Female Chastity | Maxim Magazine

The Art of Spanking | Maxim Magazine 

My Friend – The Spreader Bar | Huff Post

Please Spank Me! | Huff Post

Figging | Vanessa’s Blog

KINKS, FETISHES & KINK SHAMING

My Soldier Uniform Fetish | Huff Post

Angry Sex | Maxim Magazine

Marilyn Manson Accusations & Kink-shaming | The Spectator 

Period Sex | Vanessa’s Blog 

I Love My Sex Bruises | Huff Post

On All Fours | Huff Post

The Bangover | Vanessa’s Blog

Why I Love Sex Facials | Vanessa’s Blog

Don’t Tell Me What Sex Acts I’m Allowed To Enjoy | Huff Post

FEMALE SEXUAL PEAK

My Sexual Peak Is A Celebration | Rebelle Society

How To Make The Most Of Your Sexual Peak | Kinkly

Naughty Forties | Vanessa’s Blog

My Genitals Are On Fire | Huff Post

CUNNILINGUS

Don’t Be A Pussy. Just Eat My Pussy | Maxim Magazine

Face-sitting | Vanessa’s blog

FELLATIO

The Health Benefits Of Swallowing | Penthouse Magazine

The Blowjob Seeker | Maxim Magazine

The Deepthroat Diva | Vanessa’s Blog

The Blowjob Artist | Huff Post

The Double Blowjob | Huff Post

The Python Blowjob | Huff Post

It’ Raining Dick Pics | The Spectator

The Beauty Of An Erection | Huff Post

Semen Is a Motherfucker | Vanessa’s Blog

Pre-cum | Vanessa’s Blog

The Art Of Penis Worship | Huff Post

Sucked | Vanessa’s Blog

10 Reasons Why I Would Rather Give A Blowjob Than Have Sex | Huff Post

Cockology | Vanessa’s Blog

The Hum-Balls-Harlot | Huff Post

The Art Of Road Head | Vanessa’s Blog

4 Creative Blowjobs To Give Him | Vanessa’s Blog

Soiled | Vanessa’s Blog

Craving His Cum | Vanessa’s Blog

The Handjob Hussy | Huff Post

FEMALE EJACULATION

The Squirting Princess | Huff Post

Spray | Vanessa’s Blog

SEX WORK

Michaela Dunn’s Job As A Sex Worker Shouldn’t Overshadow Her Tragic Death | The Daily Telegraph

Sex For Rent | The Spectator

Why I’ve Paid For Sex And Why I Will Again | Vanessa’s Blog

The Sex Work Nobody Speaks About | Huff Post

Why You Really Love Strippers | Maxim Magazine

Who Says A Woman Can’t Win With A Sugar-Daddy Arrangement? | The Spectator

ANAL SEX

Is Anal The New Black? | Vanessa’s Blog

The Joys Of Double Penetration: A Female Perspective | Penthouse Magazine

PORNOGRAPHY

Why I Love Watching Gangbang Porn | Vanessa’s Blog

Coronavirus Porn | Maxim Magazine

7 Reasons Why I Love Watching Porn For The Male Gaze | Vanessa’s Blog

Are You Addicted To Pornography? | Maxim Magazine

Pornography: Neither A Culprit or a Cop-out | The Spectator

I Find Hardcore Porn Empowering | Vanessa’s Blog

How To Explain Your Porn Habit To Her | Maxim Magazine

Monster Porn | Vanessa’s Blog

HOW TO BECOME A SEX WRITER

How I Went From Burned Out Actress To Maxim Sex Columnist | Writers Weekly

How I Accidentally Fell Into Adult Copywriting | Writer’s Weekly

How To Land Work Writing For Men’s Magazines | Writers Weekly

ADULTERY

As A Mistress, I Deserve Your Thanks, Not Your Condemnation | Daily Telegraph

How To Be A Perfect Mistress | Vanessa’s Blog

Fuck Letters | Vanessa’s Blog

SEX & HEALTH

My Vaginismus Is Not For Male Sexual Pleasure | The F Word

The Health Benefits Of Doing The Nasty | Huff Post

SEX & LITERATURE

Femme Fatale | Vanessa’s Blog

Girlvert: A Porno Memoir | Vanessa’s Blog

Bestselling Book Love & Fuck Poems Hits UK | Huff Post

ONLINE SEX & SEX TECH

Sex Robots Offer Real Benefits To Society and Women | iNews UK

Men, Sex & Instagram | Maxim Magazine

Virtual Sex VS Real Life Sex | Maxim Magazine

Cyber Love | Maxim Magazine

FEMALE PURITY

The Pure Female Lie | Vanessa’s Blog

The Good Girl Lie | The Spectator

That Crackers Consent Ad? Blame The Left For Sanitising Sex | The Spectator

Christianity & Shame | Vanessa’s Blog

The Price I Pay For Being Sexually Liberated | Vanessa’s Blog

Consent is NOT like a cup of tea | Vanessa’s Blog

It’s Erotic If You Use A Feather | The Spectator

Sex & the Sydney Stabbing | The Spectator

To Blow On Whom I Please | The Spectator

GROUP SEX

Group Sex Manifesto | Vanessa’s Blog

Thugby League Can’t Even Get A Gangbang Right | The Spectator

The Politics Of Group Sex | Vanessa’s Blog

MASTURBATION

You Should Be Proud To Be A Wanker | GQ Magazine

The Wank Bank | Vanessa’s Blog

I Touch Myself | Huff Post

What Masturbating Has Taught Me | Vanessa’s Blog

FEMALE SEXUALITY

The Power Between My Legs | Rebelle Society

My Vagina Runs My Life | Huff Post

I Scream During Sex | Huff Post

Addic(k)ted | Huff Post

Why Is My Choice Not To Wear A Bra Still Taboo? | Sydney Morning Herald

Digital Pleasure | Vanessa’s Blog

The Freedom of Sexual Expression | Vanessa’s Blog

Slut-shaming? A Sport Amongst Women | Vanessa’s Blog

Bring Back The Bush | Huff Post

Every Tom, Dick and Harry | Vanessa’s Blog

The Other Side Of Slut-shaming | Huff Post

What I’ve Learnt About My Sexuality Through Watching The Crown | Vanessa’s Blog

Eroticism & Me | Vanessa’s Blog

The Silencing of Female Sexuality | Huff Post

Why I Find Nudity, Porn and Vulgarity Empowering | Thought Catalog

10 Things Men Don’t Want Their Girlfriends  Or Wives To Know | Vanessa’s Blog

There Is Nothing Better Than Sex | Thought Catalog

Mr. Nameless Fuck | Vanessa’s Blog

The Fullness Of Sex | Vanessa’s Blog

LGBTQI

Biphobia | Vanessa’s Blog

Sex Is Weird For Everyone | Archer Magazine

Roxanne White: My Life As A Trans Woman | Huff Post

5 Awesome Sex Positions For Girl-On-Girl Love | Kinkly

Spag n Drag: The Manly Sisters | Topic Media

I Am A Woman & Proud Of It | The Spectator

ARCHETYPES

I’m An Authentic Whore | Huff Post

I’ve Reclaimed The Word – Whore | Huff Post

VALENTINES DAY

The V-day Score | Maxim Magazine

20 Ways To Turn Him On This Valentine’s Day | Vanessa’s Blog

Here’s To Valentine’s Day | Huff Post

The Anti-Valentine’s Day Show | Milk Bar Magazine

Forget Romance. Some Women Just Want Sex | Daily Telegraph

SEASONAL SEX

Summer Lovin’ | Maxim Magazine

5 Best Place To Have Sex While Keeping Warm This Winter | Maxim Magazine

FAIRYTALES & SEX

Little Red & The Big Bad Wolf | Vanessa’s Blog

FEMINISM & SEX

Can You be a Feminist and Still Fuck Men? | the Spectator

Faux Feminism Of The Orgasm Gap | The Spectator

Grow A Juicy Kickass Vagina And Stop Whinging | The Spectator

SEX & LANGUAGE

What The F-ck Is Going On With C-nsorship For Snow-lakes? | The Spectator

SPORT & SEX

Nick Kyrgios Is A Slut Shamer | Huff Post

Chris Gayle Owes An Apology To Journalist – Mel McLaughlin | Huff Post

SEX TOY REVIEWS

Girls Best Friend | Vanessa’s Blog

The Sutra | Vanessa’s Blog

Crystal Heart Glass Dildo | Vanessa’s Blog

The Sex Toys I’ve Used Most During 2020 | Vanessa’s Blog

The Velvet Thruster | Vanessa’s Blog 

Lovehoney Sensual 8-inch Glass Dildo | Vanessa’s Blog

Sugar Pop Rabbit Vibrator | Vanessa’s Blog

Satisfyer Pro Penguin | Vanessa’s Blog

Hot OctoPUSS Digit Finger | Vanessa’s Blog

Sola Cue G-spot Vibrator | Vanessa’s Blog

Mysteryvibe Crescendo | Vanessa’s Blog

Queen Bee Review | Vanessa’s Blog

We-Vibe Tango | Vanessa’s Blog

Jackhammer Jesus | Vanessa’s Blog

Toothpaste? Check. Soap? Check. Vibrator Check | The Daily Telegraph | Rendezview

(Please note I no longer review sex toys on my website and not all my sex toy reviews are listed here).