Sex Columns
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Vanessa’s sex columns have appeared in Maxim, Penthouse, GQ, The Daily Telegraph, The Sydney Morning Herald, The Huff Post and innumerable others. Vanessa’s work explores fierce female sexuality and self-exploitation.
BLOWJOBS
The Health Benefits Of Swallowing | Penthouse Magazine
The Blowjob Seeker | Maxim Magazine
The Deepthroat Diva | Vanessa’s Blog
The Blowjob Artist | Huff Post
The Double Blowjob | Huff Post
The Python Blowjob | Huff Post
10 Reasons Why I Would Rather Give A Blowjob Than Have Sex | Huff Post
The Art of Penis Worship | Huff Post
The Art of Road Head | Vanessa’s Blog
4 Creative Blowjobs to Give Him | Vanessa’s Blog
CUNNILINGUS
Don’t Be a Pussy. Just Eat My Pussy | Maxim Magazine
Being photographed whilst having my pussy eaten | Medium
ANAL SEX
Is Anal The New Black? | Vanessa’s Blog
The Joys Of Double Penetration: A Female Perspective | Penthouse Magazine
OBJECTIFYING MEN
The Sexual Objectification of Brett Sutton – The Spectator
LGBTQI
Sex Is Weird For Everyone | Archer Magazine
Roxanne White: My Life As A Trans Woman | Huff Post
Spag n Drag: The Manly Sisters | Topic Media
GETTING FINGERED
Digital Pleasure | Vanessa’s Blog
GROUP SEX
Group Sex Manifesto | Vanessa’s Blog
Thugby League Can’t Even Get A Gangbang Right | The Spectator
The Politics Of Group Sex | Vanessa’s Blog
THE MILITARY
My Soldier Uniform Fetish | Huff Post
The Wank Bank | Vanessa’s Blog
THE BEST FUCK OF MY LIFE
Mr. Nameless Fuck | Vanessa’s Blog
CUM
Craving His Cum | Vanessa’s Blog
Semen Is a Motherfucker | Vanessa’s Blog
Why I Love Sex Facials | Vanessa’s Blog
VIRGINS
The Virgin Princess | Vanessa’s Blog
PUBES
Bring Back The Bush | Huff Post
ADULTERY
As a mistress, I deserve your thanks, not your condemnation – The Daily Telegraph
How to be a perfect mistress | Vanessa’s Blog
The Other Woman | Vanessa’s Blog
10 Things Men Don’t Want Their Girlfriends Or Wives To Know | Vanessa’s Blog
DICK PICS
It’s raining Dick pics | The Spectator
THE OUTRAGEOUS SLUT
My Sex Bucket List | Vanessa’s Blog
My Vagina Runs My Life | Huff Post
The Power Between My Legs | Rebelle Society
Connecting with your inner slut | Vanessa’s Blog
Slut-shaming? A Sport Amongst Women | Vanessa’s Blog
What I’ve Learnt About My Sexuality Through Watching The Crown | Vanessa’s Blog
Eroticism & Me | Vanessa’s Blog
Every Tom, Dick and Harry | Vanessa’s Blog
The Other Side Of Slut-shaming | Huff Post
I’m An Authentic Whore | Huff Post
I’ve Reclaimed the Word – Whore | Huff Post
Why I Find Nudity, Porn and Vulgarity Empowering | Thought Catalog
There Is Nothing Better Than Sex | Thought Catalog
The Fullness Of Sex | Vanessa’s Blog
HANDJOBS & BALLPLAY
The Hum-Balls-Harlot | Huff Post
FREE THE FUCKING NIPPLE
Why Is My Choice Not To Wear A Bra Still Taboo? | Sydney Morning Herald
PORN
Why I Love Watching Gangbang Porn | Vanessa’s Blog
Coronavirus Porn | Maxim Magazine
7 Reasons Why I Love Watching Porn for The Male Gaze | Vanessa’s Blog
Are You Addicted to Pornography? | Maxim Magazine
Pornography: Neither A Culprit or a Cop-out | The Spectator
I Find Hardcore Porn Empowering | Vanessa’s Blog
How To Explain Your Porn Habit to Her | Maxim Magazine
ERECTIONS
The Beauty of an Erection | Huff Post
How To Last Longer | Maxim Magazine
SEX ADVICE FOR MEN
5 Reasons Why You’re Not Getting Any Pussy | Huff Post
You Should Be Proud To Be A Wanker | GQ Magazine
How To Orchestrate a Booty Call | Maxim Magazine
How To Spot a Bunny Boiler In Less Than Three Dates | Maxim Magazine
How To Navigate The #MeToo Era | Maxim Magazine
How To Tell If She’s Faking It | Maxim Magazine
8 Ways to Be More Erotic Outside the Bedroom | Maxim Magazine
101 Ways to Improve Your Sex Life | Maxim Magazine
The Politics of Office Sex | Penthouse Magazine
History Of The Camel Toe | Maxim Magazine
The Pickup Artist | Maxim Magazine
Turn-offs and Turn-ons when it comes to men | Vanessa’s Blog
How Does A Man Go About Introducing a Sex Toy In The Bedroom | Maxim Magazine
BDSM
What You Need to Know About Female Chastity | Maxim Magazine
The Art of Spanking | Maxim Magazine
My Friend – The Spreader Bar | Huff Post
KINKS & FETISHES
Marilyn Manson Accusations & Kink-shaming | The Spectator
I Love My Sex Bruises | Huff Post
Don’t Tell Me What Sex Acts I’m Allowed To Enjoy | Huff Post
SEX POSITIONS
5 Awesome Sex Positions For Girl-On-Girl Love | Kinkly
SEX WORK
Michaela Dunn’s Job As A Sex Worker Shouldn’t Overshadow Her Tragic Death | The Daily Telegraph
Why I’ve Paid For Sex And Why I Will Again | Vanessa’s Blog
The Sex Work Nobody Speaks About | Huff Post
Why You Really Love Strippers | Maxim Magazine
Who Says a Woman Can’t Win with a Sugar-Daddy Arrangement? | The Spectator
Sex & the Sydney Stabbing | The Spectator
RAPE, RAPE FANTASIES & RAPE PLAY
Having A Healthy Sex Life Post Rape | Vanessa’s Blog
Rape Jokes & Dealing With Trauma | Archer Magazine
Rapeplay | Cara Sutra Magazine
Rape Culture Writ Large | New Matilda
Stop Infantalising Victims! | The Spectator
Every Orgasm I Have | Daily Telegraph – RendezView
The George Pell Case: Survival Guide For Victims
I’m Sexually Healing From Rape Through Spoken Word | Huff Post
BODY SHAMING
Why We Shouldn’t Body Shame Men | Perth Now
FEMALE EJACULATION
The Squirting Princess | Huff Post
SEX CENSORSHIP
The Freedom of Sexual Expression | Vanessa’s Blog
I Scream During Sex | Huff Post
What The F-ck Is Going On With C-nsorship For Snow-lakes? | The Spectator
The Silencing of Female Sexuality | Huff Post
SEX & POLITICS
Why Can’t Australian Politics Produce a Cicciolina? | The Spectator
Political Performance | Maxim Magazine
Down In The Polls But Still Up For It | The Spectator
Sailors and Half-clad Women | The Spectator
FEMALE SEXUAL PEAK
My Sexual Peak Is A Celebration | Rebelle Society
How To Make The Most Of Your Sexual Peak | Kinkly
Naughty Forties | Vanessa’s Blog
My Genitals Are On Fire | Huff Post
Morning Glory | Maxim Magazine
HOW TO BECOME A SEX WRITER
Political Correctness is Killing Men’s Magazines | WritersWeekly.com
The sex blogging industry has become woke – Vanessa’s Blog
How I Went From Burned Out Actress To Maxim Sex Columnist | Writers Weekly
How I Accidentally Fell Into Adult Copywriting | Writer’s Weekly
How To Land Work Writing For Men’s Magazines | Writers Weekly
SEX & HEALTH
My Vaginismus Is Not For Male Sexual Pleasure | The F Word
The Health Benefits Of Doing The Nasty | Huff Post
SEX & LITERATURE & ART
How to Break the Internet With a Vagina and a Ball of Wool | Huff Post
Girlvert: A Porno Memoir | Vanessa’s Blog
Bestselling Book Love & Fuck Poems Hits UK | Huff Post
ONLINE SEX & SEX TECH
Sex Robots Offer Real Benefits To Society and Women | iNews UK
Men, Sex & Instagram | Maxim Magazine
Virtual Sex VS Real Life Sex | Maxim Magazine
FEMINISM & SEX
Can You be a Feminist and Still Fuck Men? | the Spectator
Orgasm Gap: What’s The Deal? | Maxim Magazine
Grow A Juicy Kickass Vagina And Stop Whinging | The Spectator
SPORT & SEX
Nick Kyrgios Is A Slut Shamer | Huff Post
Chris Gayle Owes An Apology To Journalist – Mel McLaughlin | Huff Post
FEMALE PURITY
The Pure Female Lie | Vanessa’s Blog
Prudish women are cunts | Vanessa’s Blog
The Good Girl Lie | The Spectator
That Crackers Consent Ad? Blame The Left For Sanitising Sex | The Spectator
Christianity & Shame | Vanessa’s Blog
The Price I Pay For Being Sexually Liberated | Vanessa’s Blog
Consent is NOT like a cup of tea | Vanessa’s Blog
It’s Erotic If You Use A Feather | The Spectator
To Blow On Whom I Please | The Spectator
MASTURBATION & SEX TOYS
What Masturbating Has Taught Me | Vanessa’s Blog
Being a sex toy reviewer isn’t what it’s cracked up to | Vanssa’s Blog
Anxious masturbation | Vanessa’s Blog
Toothpaste? Check. Soap? Check. Vibrator Check | The Daily Telegraph | Rendezview
Womanizer shamefully makes Marilyn Monroe into a sex toy – The Spectator
MONOGAMY VS NON MONOGAMY
Is ethical non monogamy the way to go? | Maxim Magazine
Can you be married and be free, simultaneously? | Vanessa’s Blog
Mrs Somebody-Else | The Huff Post
VALENTINES DAY
The V-day Score | Maxim Magazine
20 Ways To Turn Him On This Valentine’s Day | Vanessa’s Blog
Here’s To Valentine’s Day | Huff Post
The Anti-Valentine’s Day Show | Milk Bar Magazine
Forget Romance. Some Women Just Want Sex | Daily Telegraph
BIRTHDAY & CHRISTMAS SEX
The Birthday Bang | Maxim Magazine
Sex Toys To Buy Him And Her For Christmas | Maxim Magazine
Looking for Sexy XXXmas Presents? – Maxim Magazine
SEASONAL SEX
Summer Lovin’ | Maxim Magazine
5 Best Place To Have Sex While Keeping Warm This Winter | Maxim Magazine
FAIRYTALES & SEX