Opinion Columns

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Vanessa de Largie has sold columns and feature articles to magazines and newspapers all over the globe. She has written prolifically about her rape. She also writes about domestic violence, PTSD, Endometriosis, aged care, sex work, art, being a carer and more. If you are offended by Vanessa’s views – she doesn’t give a shit. It would be a pretty beige world, if we all thought the same thoughts. 

RAPE & SEXUAL ABUSE

Having A Healthy Sex Life Post Rape | Vanessa’s Blog

Rape Culture Writ Large | New Matilda

Rape Jokes & Dealing With Trauma | Archer Magazine

Rapeplay | Cara Sutra Magazine

Stop Infantalising Victims! | The Spectator

Every Orgasm I Have | Daily Telegraph – RendezView

The George Pell Case: Survival Guide For Victims

I’m Sexually Healing From Rape Through Spoken Word | Huff Post

AGED CARE, THE ELDERLY & EUTHANASIA

As A Carer, I Watched My Mum Die Day By Day | The Daily Telegraph

An Open Letter To My Late Mother | Vanessa’s Blog 

Why I’m Grateful For Having Older Parents | SBS

Life and Death Decisions Can Live On To Haunt Loved Ones | The Mercury

It’s Time For Cameras In Nursing Homes | The Daily Telegraph

The Terrifying Side To Voluntary Euthanasia | The Daily Telegraph

Euthanasia” Victoria Flatlines | Quadrant

It’s A Lonely Life When You’re Anti -Euthanasia | The Spectator

Music Tuesday Guest Post | Mary Rowen Blog

Twinkle In The Sky | Medium

Lessons From An Elderly Man | Vanessa’s Blog 

Covid Cavaliers Forget The Elderly | The Spectator

My Fairy Garden | Vanessa’s Blog

4 Things I Learnt When My Mum, Dad & Brother Died In My 20s | Rebelle Society

Suicide Song | Vanessa’s Blog

The Letter – Vanessa de Largie

MARRIAGE

Mrs. Somebody Else | Huff Post

CHILDLESSNESS

Miss Childless-By-Choice | Huff Post

Having a Child Is My Worst Nightmare | SheSaid

I’m Not A Mother But Where Is My Bonus? |Huff Post

POLITICS

Bullying A Child Isn’t Political Debate | The Spectator

The Reason Julie Bishop Isn’t PM | Perth Now

LL Bojo The Spectator

Why Can’t Australian Politics Produce a Cicciolina? | The Spectator

Political Performance | Maxim Magazine

Down In The Polls But Still Up For It | The Spectator

I’ve Got Them Barnaby Blues  – NOT| The Spectator

Is There a Trump Smear The Left Won’t Stoop to? | The Spectator

Trump Derangement Syndrome | The Mindless Miss M | Quadrant

Sailors and Half-clad Women | The Spectato

DEPRESSION, PTSD, ANXIETY, TRAUMA

Sick, sad and confused: Living With PTSD | The Spectator

My Love/Hate Relationship With My Deceased Alcoholic Brother

Locked In A Psych Ward: My Teenage Hell | News.com.au

Living With Trauma | The Fix

Why are you so angry lately, Ness? | Vanessa’s Blog

2023 – THIS WAS THE YEAR | Vanessa’s Blog

Death Is Waiting For Me | Vanessa’s Blog

Shh. Don’t Tell Anyone! | HuffPost 

SELF CARE

Say No To Users, Abusers and Losers | Vanessa’s Blog

My Freedom Wings | Huff Post  

Pieces Of Me | Vanessa’s Blog

How I Completely Changed My Life In 11 Months | Vanessa’s Blog

Shaving My Head Was A Fierce Act Of Rebellion | The Hit Job

GENDER POLITICS

#MeToo: the creed of hypocrisy | The Spectator

Victimhood – 1. Debate – 0 | The Daily Telegraph

Abortions Are Hell But A Woman’s Choice To Make | The Spectator

Modern Day Girlpower? Excuse Me While I Vomit | The Daily Telegraph

It Can’t Be A Supermoon If It’s Not Gender Inclusive | The Spectator

Jenny Beavan Is My Hero | Huff Post

Male Feminists Are Deeply Dodgy | The Spectator

Handsome Is As Handsome Does | The Spectator

I’m A Person. Not A Person Of Colour | The Spectator

The Sexual Objectification Of Brett Sutton | The Spectator

Good. Gooder? | The Spectator

The Most Important Issue Of 2020? Sexist Kids Water Bottles | The Spectator

The Problem With The Fearless Feminist Narrative | The Spectator

Hatred of men is being normalised | The  Spectator

Snow White and the Intellectual Dwarves | The Spectator

Clem Goes Gooey Over Dead White Male | The Spectator

Leunig and the Loon Brigade | The Spectator

Nightmare Feminism | The Spectator

Why I’ve Detached From Feminism | Tuck Magazine

Here’s An Idea, Give Men A Break | Huff Post

Three Cheers For Lads…and Lavatories | Quadrant

Feminist Fighters Love Their Boys – As Weapons | The Spectator

Boys Won’t Be Boys | The Spectator

Caring Compassionate Clem | The Spectator

Man-hating & Fashion(able) Victims | The Spectator

When Journos Join The Thought Police | The Spectator

Dear Dr. Greer, please shut up! | The Spectator

Gatecrashing The Funeral For Selfies | The Spectator

A Metaphor By Any Other Name | The Spectator

Fake Rape Claims Harm | The Spectator

WOKENESS, VIRTUE-SIGNALLING & CENSORSHIP

Stuff Woke. Be Practical | The Spectator

The Woke Can’t Handle Queen: Fat Bottomed Girls Axed From Album | The Spectator

Is Black Widow leading a fightback against wokeness in the arts? The Spectator

Why ‘Nup To The Cup’ Is Bullshit | Medium

Baby It’s Woke Outside | The Spectator

Why the Jess Rowe Big Talk Show Podcast is too small to include Pauline Hanson | The Spectator

Bah-Humbug To Christmases That Aren’t | Quadrant

Filly-Follies | The Spectator

Let Me Feel Your Pain, So I Can Claim It As Mine | The Spectator

The Best An SJW Can Get | The Spectator

Sesame Street Makes Us The Muppets | The Spectator

Milk Is Racist: Official | The Spectator

Bernardo Bertolucci And Fake News | The Spectator

HEALTH

Living With Endometriosis | Vanessa’s Blog

My Reproductive Organs Need A Voice | Huff Post

Forget when Belle Gibson will get jail. When will her victims get justice? | The Spectator

SPORT

Bring On The Barty Party | The Spectator

The Serena Williams Cartoon Wasn’t Racist. It Was Honest! | Perth Now

ARTISTS & CREATIVES

Living Your Dream Takes Courage | Rebelle Society

My beloved Actors Centre rebrands 

Celebrating 90 years of my late Mum’s life with films – Vanessa’s Blog

Get A Real Job! | Vanessa’s Blog

My Two Word Boards for 2024 

My Vision Board for 2024 

The Pitch | Vanessa’s Blog

Self isolation? Working from home? Some of us have flourished for years doing it | The Spectator

Excess: An Art and Poetry Book by Jan van Rijn & Vanessa de Largie | Vanessa’s Blog

Denial Of Artists | Medium

The Artists Diary: Portraits By Judy Cassab @ The National Portrait Gallery | Topic Media

How my writing habits have changed | Vanessa’s Blog

Poems To Knock The Sun Out Of The Sky | Ryan Quinn Flanagan In His Own Words | Huff Post

The Horror, Sleaze, Trash that is Ben John  Smith | Huff Post

How to Break the Internet With a Vagina and a Ball of Wool | Huff Post

Australia’s Total Lockdown Almost Destroyed My Writing Business | Writer’s Weekly

Facebook Gives Our Already Battered Creative Industries Another Belting | The Spectator

Creativity Can Only Exist Through Action | Medium

6 Reasons Why Tragedy Creates Tough Competitors In The Workplace | Rebelle Society

The Challenges Of A 30-Day Writing Challenge | Vanessa’s Blog

VIOLENCE & CRIME

When Killing An Innocent Woman Is “An Honour” | Huff Post

Exit This Way | Australia Times

The Netflix Miniseries MAID Helped Me To Process my Own Shit | Vanessa’s Blog

Griselda Blanco: When Fear Is A Woman | Huff Post

The Claremont Serial Killer Stole Our Freedom | Huff Post

Australian Gendered Violence Film Makes Waves | Huff Post

Hidden Victims Of DV | Online Opinion

It’s Not Just Women That Suffer From Family Violence | Huff Post

The Melbourne accused: tragic, but not the Australian everyman | The Spectator

CELEBRITY

Bullying From A Professional Media Manipulator | The Spectator

Is It Time To Unmask All The Australian Harveys? | Huff Post

Crikey. It’s The Irwins. | The Spectator

Get Botox? Stop Living A Lie. | The Daily Telegraph

CHARITY

The Amazing Return Of Captain Australia

MUSIC

I Went To See The Glenn Miller Orchestra & It Was A  Dream Come True | Milk Bar Magazine

CHRISTMAS

6 Ways To Spread Christmas Cheer Without A Dime | Huff Post

Santa Claus Is Real | Huff Post

ARTICLES FOR TOPIC MEDIA

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ARTICLES FOR MILK BAR MAGAZINE

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ARTICLES FOR TUCK MAGAZINE

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