July 11, 2024 | Vanessa de Largie
If you are looking to connect with your inner slut – then you’ve come to the right place. I’ve been living a sexually liberated existence for over two decades and I wouldn’t change a thing.
Authentic sexual liberation (for women) is about freeing yourself from societal stigma and following the lusts of the flesh. It’s about living wildly and unapologetically. It’s about the pursuit of pleasure – whatever the cost.
Here are some suggestions on how to connect with the slut within. Tried and tested by yours truly.
Anal in the missionary position
If you’re a woman who likes being fucked up the arse. May I suggest anal in the missionary position? It is NEXT LEVEL erotic. Flexibility does help in this position because you have to lift your legs up and push them back. My favourite anal porn star is Adriana Chechic. Adriana makes ANAL into an art form. Be sure to check out her work on Pornhub.
Masturbate every day
Masturbation is about making yourself a priority. I masturbate two times a day (minimum). It’s a way of connecting with my body. Masturbation makes you a better lover. How can you tell a partner how to pleasure you, if you’ve never pleasured yourself?
Practice intuitive sex
I don’t talk during sex. However, I do scream, moan, shake, squirt and suck. Forget all this woke bullshit that infantilizes grown adults in the bedroom. Sex is not the place for rules and regulations. Experts around the world agree that 93% of all communication is non-verbal. Intuitive sex is the ONLY kind of sex worth having.
Stop wearing underwear
I stopped wearing underwear twenty years ago. If you look through photos of me, I am always braless unless I am wearing a push-up bra. I own a lot of vintage lingerie for sexy times. But in my day to day – I move around the world freely. It can also be erotic when a man discovers that you aren’t wearing panties.
Ditch romance
Do I appreciate a bouquet of flowers? Of course I do. However, I understand that romance is contrived. Men are pressured to jump through hoops to get sex – so romance becomes a transaction. Begin to have sex for sex’s sake without needing a bunch of stars to align. Ditch romance for pleasure and take back your female sexual power.
Women are bitchy to sexual women
Please be aware that women treat sexual women differently. But is it worth it? HELL YES. You are making a stand against THOUSANDS of years of sexual repression and that takes tremendous courage. There is no “sisterhood” for women who like to fuck.
Men will misinterpret you
A lot of men confuse sexual liberation with promiscuity. Obviously the two can go together but not always. I may be sexually liberated. However, I haven’t had sex for several years due to my mental health challenges. And I’m incredibly fussy about who I spread my legs for. If you believe a woman will be easier to fuck because she’s sexually liberated. YOU ARE IN FOR A NASTY SHOCK.
Conclusion
Connecting with your inner slut is about your pleasure and sexual journey. It is NOT for the benefit of others. To live a sexually FREE life in this era of censorship and political correctness is a massive rebellion. I am not willing to live any other way.